Saturday, February 7, 2009

Some tips to become a master text flirt

First...

I congratulate you on taking a step toward this new form of
attraction, a lot of men avoid texting and it's really starting to
hurt their success with women. The worst part is they don't even
know it and they continue texting the same messages that damage
their ability to have the women they want in their life.
I have spent an incredible amount of time researching attraction,
interviewing gurus and testing 1000's of text messages. As a
result, I've been able to compile the best methods and messages
in this day and age.

And after seeing a ton of success in my coaching I have decided to
-reveal my texting secrets so more men can take advantage
of this gold mine. I say gold mine because...

Most men text women like friends, and that kills the attraction!

Most men don't really know how to flirt with women. They refer
back to their normal messages they send to their friends,
which is what ruins their chances with women.

When women start seeing the right flirty messages, you are really
going to stand out among the other men. Women will notice and start
thinking about you and desiring you more because of this contrast.
Point is, texting has become a huge part in communication,
especially for women, and I know you're going to start seeing more
success with women if you start applying what I have discovered.


So let's get started...

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Below is an except from The Ultimate Texting Guide. This is to give
you a sneak preview of whats inside of this proven and only texting
guide available to men.

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Texting Tip #1 "The take away - Creating Doubt"

You see, women (especially good looking ones) tend to only want a man
when they lose control of the relationship. In other words, they
don't go for men they are certain they can have. Creating doubt in
her mind that you can't be together will amplify her attraction
towards you. You do this by being able to remove yourself from the
situation and set up boundaries to where she gets doubtful that she
can have you.

Most importantly this tip makes you a qualifier and that is the best
place you can be in a relationship.

Here are a few text message examples of creating doubt:

-"You don't like _________, I don't think this is going to work
out" Example: "You don't like ice cream, I don't think this is
going to work out"

-"You seem like a cool girl but you're just not my type"

-"I don't think you can handle me"

-"This isn't working out, lets just be friends."

-"You're just not what I had in mind"

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#2. Let her know you're confident through texting.



If she says you're good at something just continue and say,
Thanks, I'm glad you noticed. Or Yea, I'm good at everything I
do. Or you could play it on a more humble side, Yea I get that a
lot. Just make sure you own it. She is actually testing you to
see if you can be confident in yourself, never say, No I'm not,
just luck. You will lose the second you say this and she will move
on.


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#3. Build rapport and connection.



Relate about something that you both do or text her something that
you both experienced together. Here's a text conversation with a
girl I met dancing and how I created a connection, Hey I'm trying
to find a girl that is 5 foot 6 and likes to fall on her face while
dancing. You know her? Her response, Ha Ha Ha, thanks for the
reminder. I helped her up after she tripped onto her face and I
used that in the text and it worked great. If you can, try to text
something that relates to a connection you have in the real world.


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#4. What do you do if a woman is trying to get something out of
you?



If she wants you to do something for her I keep it simple and call
her out and say, You're just here to use me. It almost always
works if you call a woman out on something she is trying to get
away with - especially the good-looking women. If she asks for
something, and you know she's trying to milk it with her looks,
I'll approach it tactfully and say something like, I would, but
you're not cute enough to get that from me. It seems mean,
but those kind of women love it because no guy treats them like
that and it gives them a challenge.


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#5. Flirting in a way that sets you up for an exciting night.



This is a technique I use on girls I'm already seeing. This is an
easy technique: Start a small little bantering session early on in
the day around noon. Say some fun things so you get in her mind
logistically. Then, end the texts in a way where you leave her
hanging.

For instance, yesterday I was eating and I wanted to meet up
with this good-looking girl later on that night. I ended up texting
her, "Hey you, I was just heading in to grab a bit and I starting
thinking about you." This definitely raised her interest and
she wrote "oh.. can't get you mind off me;)" "Ya I totally forgot my
wallet and I thought could spot me :)" she wrote "ah ah ah Okay as
long as I get half." That was it and later on that night I called
her and we had we had a good night.

All the texting did was keep me on her mind and give her a little
emotional ride which is what women love to feel. It was real easy
to meet up with her after that.

Then when I do call her later on in the evening I just continue
where I left off and hit a few important points and then close it.

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